Bullying is a scourge on our society that is going to take everyone of us to curb
Bullying in schools is not a new phenomenon. We know this because we’ve experienced it in school ourselves, in some form or the other—either we’ve been bullied, witnessed it or maybe bullied someone. Though, rarely did it make the news, which begs the question: Does the recent spate of bullying in schools indicate that these incidences are on the rise and that the problem has grown worse or is there something else at play?
According to psychologist and expert on the topic of bullying Dr Goh Chee Leong, there is strong indication that the rise in number and frequency is driven by smartphones, social media and more awareness. He says there may be some difference in the way children are getting bullied (i.e, cyberbullying) but the fact that it is occurring more in schools today compared to 10 or 20 years ago, just may not be true.
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“It’s only that nobody had smartphones to take videos then, but it still happened. Even our grandparents and parents’ generation can tell us stories about bullying in their time. There’s just more of a spotlight on it because of smartphones and social media.” It’s a good thing too because bullying is finally being taken seriously and recognised as a scourge on society instead of being a normal part of school
There is nothing normal about bullying. “As human beings, there is no situation where you have no choice about your behaviour. We have a choice to be cruel or be kind,” says Goh. Also, there is always an underlying issue behind the bullying. A lot of times, bullying occurs because the bully is having some issue in their lives. In many cases, bullies themselves are victims. They may come from difficult family circumstances, are being bullied by someone else or have insecurities. And bullying becomes their way of getting attention, to make themselves feel better or solve their problems. The only way to break this cycle is to curb bullying.
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