It's no easy feat to master the art of using the right honorary titles all the time. To avoid the embarrassment of confusing these official terms, we turn to KL Speakers' Club president and the royal figurehead of social etiquette Tunku Dara Tunku Tan Sri Naquiah to shed some light
In Malaysia, many distinguished academics, businessmen, and politicians have honorary titles conferred on them either by the King or the Sultan of their state. You might have heard of Dato' Lee Chong Wei or Tengku Putri Iman Afzan and pondered over what these titles really signify, or wondered which is the highest civilian honour that can be granted to a Malaysian.
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Here, we break down the differences between Tengku and Tunku, Dato' and Datuk, and the other variants of honorary titles in Malaysia.
Unlike titles that are conferred by state or federal leaders, some titles are inherited by members of the royal family, most notably terms like ‘Tengku’ and ‘Tunku’ (translated to prince or princess). What’s the difference between the two?
“They are actually the same; but ‘Tunku’ is written this way in the states of Kedah, Johor, and Negeri Sembilan,” says Tunku Dara.
“In Pahang, Selangor, Kelantan and Terengganu, this term is spelt ‘Tengku’. However, in Perlis, it is ‘Syed’ and in Perak it is ‘Raja’.”
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